Only when necessary do I consider myself a leader. I am more a recluse, so usually it is work or family related. Strength is something I had to find young and I lead myself on my own path. When necessary, others can follow along at will or need.
I am definitely a leader in not taking the usual behaviors of bad actors. That’s where tater twots originated… everybody knows one… and IS one to someone.
I call them out.
Here’s a crazy example: